Robert Oliver on Instagram: "In psychology, one of the biggest signs of emotional intelligence is being unable to fully hate someone—because you understand why they did what they did. That awareness is a gift, but it feels like a curse. You see the wound behind the sarcasm. The fear behind the distance. The self-hate behind the betrayal. Too aware to stay angry, but still walking with the scar. Forgiveness doesn’t mean access. You can understand someone’s pain and still protect your peace. You’r